Parental Support
Being a parent is one of the most difficult jobs there is, for which little training or preparation is available.
Most families experience difficulties and challenges at some stage of their children’s lives. It is not always easy to talk about worries or know where to go for help or advice. Parents can feel that they are failing in some way if things go wrong and it can be difficult to share anxieties.
Before you leave your child with a minder
Make sure you use people you can trust to care for your child. Ask to see certificates or registration documents and speak to other parents who have used the minder or babysitter you are considering .
Situations where you are concerned about the welfare of a child
You could speak to the parent and check if there are difficulties where you could offer some support. However, if you are worried about a child being abused, you should contact Barnet children’s services or the NSPCC to report your concerns.
Helping to protect children is everyone’s responsibility and social workers rely on information from all members of the community so that concerns can be investigated. Children are rarely removed from home as they are usually best cared for by their own families. However, sometimes families need support to look after their children safely.
You need to discipline your child but you don't want to smack them
There are many positive alternatives to smacking which are more effective in managing behaviour. Children learn best when they are given incentives for good behaviour and there are various strategies that work well for different age groups.
Your health visitor can be a useful source of advice and practical guides are available from organisations such as Barnardo’s and NSPCC.
When you think your child is being bullied
It is important that this issue is raised at school so that the appropriate action can be taken.Bullying is unacceptable and schools are required to have an Anti-Bullying Policy . It is important that parents and schools work in partnership to take action to deal with the bully and encourage ways for your child to protect themselves and seek help .
You have suspicions your child may be using drugs...
If your child’s behaviour, appearance or financial situation changes, you should include drug and alcohol use in your list of ‘I wonder if’ questions . Observe and talk to your child and ensure you are informed about drug use and the effects of different types of drugs.
For further information about safeguarding children and safer parenting, please use the contact details opposite.
Children, young people and families
